Monday, March 9, 2009

I hate Internet!


Me, who spends so much time online, researching, writing, downloading, uploading and criticising pictures? All fine, nothing wrong with that and this is the part of "internetting" that I like.


The problems begin when it comes to chatting. You meet new, interesting people and talk to them. Since there is nothing but talking, no gestures or mimics, you talk a lot. Inevitably, you exchange information. No, I'm not referring to personal data, address, phone number and the like. I'm talking about interests, taste in movies, music, what moves you, what do you hate and burn for. You quickly get close to people who have the same interests, who feel the same, whom you feel connected to. So far so harmless.

But this closeness is not real. The internet brings people together who are physically far away from one another. You're not part of their real life, they hardly are part of yours. When you really need someone, there will be a void. Your friends won't be there. Be it because of a time difference, involvement in job and family or simply "real life" that is keeping them busy.

There is only one remedy: Meeting. Taking them into your life. Believe me, it makes all the difference.

3 comments:

talldarkman said...

Hmm.....that's virtuality, for sure. But dunno how you can manage that with all the folks you meet on chats. Either you travel all the way to each of their places, or they travel up to you.....OR....a grand get together is arranged on one particular day. However, I am not sure how many of these netizens will be willing to reveal their true selves. :P

talldarkman

inserachofmuse said...

sis - real and virtual are both surreal- where are the lines sis? we take what we need from both the spaces- dunno whether it's the marcquez in my blood - but dont you think both the worlds are about magic realism- "I touched the ice and burnt"- please dont try to find the limits -
Ps- Should be around in the virtual world from next week-
In the real , find me next to you-

Anonymous said...

Happy Holi Bloggers !!
Let's Cheer up !!!